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The Family That Eats Together Stays Together


You often hear that families should eat together. What evidence is there that this is a good thing? A recent study suggests that family meals might increase adolescents’ well-being. Middle school (n=1608) and high school (n=3074) students, ages 11 to 18, completed surveys. The frequency of family meals, level of family connectedness, academic performance, substance use, self-esteem, depressions, suicidal thoughts and suicidal attempts were assessed.

About one-quarter (26.8%) of students indicated they ate seven or more meals with their families in the past week. About one-third (33.1%) reported never eating together as a family or only doing so one to two times per week.

Frequency of family meals was related to many variables. For boys, greater frequency of family meals was associated with lower frequencies of cigarette use, alcohol use and marijuana use, as well as less depression. For girls, greater frequency of family meals was associated with lower frequencies of cigarette, alcohol and marijuana use, as well as higher grade point averages, lower depression and lower likelihoods of suicidal thoughts or attempts.

Family connectedness was controlled for (meaning that it could not be responsible for the associations), since family connectedness itself was related to family meal frequency. Family connectedness was assessed by asking teenagers how much one’s father and mother care about them and whether they feel they can talk to their parents about their problems.